Relying on God to make something of my life

Have you ever thought about the fact that without God’s touch on your life, all that you do will amount to nothing?

If you are anything like so many in this world, you may at first glance, disagree with this statement, thinking “I have accomplished many things” and “when I put my mind to something, I truly am able to do a lot!”

But Scripture reminds us that apart from God we can do nothing. The Bible also says that we have nothing that we have not received and that in fact, every good and perfect gift comes down from God. So anything that we do that is from God, for His glory and anointed by His blessing will accomplish things that matter and are eternally significant. On the other hand, anything that we “accomplish” (whether we get accolades for it or not) will not matter at all if it is not from God and for God.

So, whether you are stacking goods on shelves, or working in a manufacturing plant or brainstorming ideas in an office, none of it amounts to anything if it is not surrendered to God (for His glory and purposes) and if it is not derived of God (from His wisdom, His ways and His plans).

Think about it this way. At the end of your life, what things will really matter of all the things you will have done? What things really will hold any impact or significance for the rest of eternity? Only the things that God inspired, that God called you to, that God gifted you in, that you did for the sake of God’s name and for the eternal good of the humans you blessed/served along the way.

So, here is my question…

What are you making of your life? Are you building a life of temporary happiness, fleeting accolades and earthly possessions? Or are you hearing the voice of God calling you to live a life of love, serve others, share His gospel, invest in eternal things?

God wants to make something of your life, but you will have to give Him your life and let Him call the shots (and let Him determine what it looks like and what the outcome is). But if you will let Him, I can assure you that what God creates in you and does through you will be beautiful and eternally significant!

You can’t do it all, you can’t have it all (and that’s a really good thing)

Here is what God is teaching me these days.

You can’t have it all, you can’t do it all and that is in fact, a very good thing.

I have often lived by the expression “having my cake and eating it too.” Sometimes I said that life is not about either/or but about both/and.

And sometimes this is true. Sometimes people miss the blessing God has for them because they simply don’t wholeheartedly pursue the possibilities.

But, what God is teaching me right now is that I truly can’t do everything and that’s okay. It’s not only that I can “deal with” the sadness of “missing out” on something, but in fact my life can more fulfilling by not trying to do all the things. When there is a lack of margin, when there is a lack of downtime, when there is a lack of stillness and silence (and dare I say: boredom) our lives become so chaotic that we can’t even enjoy the good things that God has prepared for us.

God has created us to experience life, but we need to understand that to experience it as God intended and in a way that will be the most life-giving and the most rewarding, we will absolutely have to say “no” to many other things that simply will threaten and fight against the fullness of God’s plans.

It is not only something that we can say “I can learn to live without that” and it certainly isn’t “settling” but rather it is learning that the higher life that God is calling us to, at times, requires stillness, silence, lack, solitude, boredom, unfilled time and unfilled space.

Instead of “FOMO” (Fear of missing out) we can say, “in Christ and according to His plan, I am even now experiencing abundance by self-denial and by having and doing less.” Just as God turns so many other things upside down, even too in this, less is in fact more.

This is the day/moment that God has made. I will be present and rejoice in it! May we daily believe and declare: “There is joy and peace and goodness and blessing and hope available to me in this moment, in this situation, in this place, in this time.”

May we each learn to slow down, listen to God, be present, enjoy the moment, not worry about what we are missing but instead fully take in and experience what God has in front of us.

The simplicity of living the Christian life

There is a simplicity of living the Christian life that we often miss.

We think to ourselves: “I’m not doing enough/praying enough/reading my Bible enough/serving enough”

Then along the way we also put extra pressure on ourselves by focusing on anxious thoughts, saying yes to too many things, playing the comparison game or trying to seek the approval of others.

But truly, if we will just get up every morning and avail ourselves to God, listening to Him and seeking to live out holy love all day every day, we can trust the Lord to provide and direct us.

So, let’s keep it simple and repeat to ourselves daily:
– Trust God
– Love God
– Help others, live holy love, show kindness and point others to the Lord

I hope this helps us all to push back the chaos and move forward one step at a time!

A few ideas

Dear pastor,

Can I share just a few practical ideas to make ministry more joyful and fulfilling?

  1. Try to get together with another pastor each week for a meal or coffee. Pick their brain, listen to their stories, rejoice with their victories, weep with their struggles, pray together
  2. Spend 1 hour per week calling people, web-browsing or reading books, just to find ideas for ministry and advice for how to balance life, work, ministry, marriage, etc
  3. In many ways, try to do the “worst first.” We often tend to put off the things we loathe or are afraid of or feel incompetent in. And when we put it off, it very often doesn’t get done. So if we tackle that church conflict issue, or put together the bulletin board that we hate doing, or perhaps we clean our office first, hopefully we will gather some momentum and hope will increase throughout the day.
  4. Don’t leave the nurturing of your own soul or the preparation of the sermon until the very end. Seek God first and He will give you and reveal to you what is needed
  5. Finally, make sure to find the things that fill your bucket: the things that make you sense the nearness of God, the things that make your spouse/family feel your love and support. Make time for those things every week. When your ministry in the local church is over your own soul and your spouse and family will still remain and we don’t want to do anything to neglect them along the way.

What are your simple and practical pieces of advice for making ministry more joy-filled and fulfilling?

More than a professional “nice person”

Dear Pastor,

I am reminded that so much of our ministry consists of loving people, listening to people, encouraging people and demonstrating the fruit of the Spirit of love, joy, kindness and gentleness.

But I need to be reminded myself that I am more than just the professional “nice guy.”

Niceness is not the mission but rather bringing glory to God and making disciples while walking with the Holy Spirit and exhibiting His fruit to other people.

When I am tempted to think that one of the biggest facets of my job is to be nice and make every feel good about themselves and to make them like me, then I miss the calling of God on my life to speak truth into people’s lives.

Very often we may sacrifice the sharing of gospel truths when we are just trying to make people feel comfortable. The reality is that God’s truth always confronts our sin, and He asks us as His children and His ministers to help others also to discover the holy truth of God that confronts their sin.

So please, don’t fall into the modern trap of just being “nice,” instead, listen to the Holy Spirit, speak the truth in love, show the radical grace of God, and live out holiness while also calling others to the same!

A prayer for simplicity

Dear Lord,

Please simplify my life.

May it be about You.
– Loving You, worshiping You, spending time with You, listening to You, walking with You, obeying You.

May it be about eternity.
– May what I think, say and do be all about producing eternal fruit and getting as many people as possible into a right relationship with You!

May it not be all about the here and the now.
– There is way too much emphasis on what is in front of us and what is in our hands. Please help me to let go. Help me to get rid of stuff. Help me to not get caught up in the temporary.

Lord, please cut off, remove and purge everything that is only distracting me from You and Your purposes.
– I know that means I need some things to change in regards to my possessions, my diet/exercise/sleep, my thoughts/attitudes/words, my entertainments and my actions. Please simplify my life and help me to remove the clutter that is keeping me from what really matters.

Finally, Lord, please help me to simply know the next step of faith to take.
– I can’t handle knowing everything that is to come or everything that is going on in this world. So help me to simply know what the next step is you have for me. Help me to know who to serve, what to say, how to help and when to rest.

Thank you God, that I know you hear this prayer and will answer out of the depths of your riches and knowledge. Help me to simply obey, no strings attached and holding nothing back.

In Jesus’ Name

AMEN

What’s my motivation?

There was an old Sprite commercial where one of the actors asks “what’s my motivation”? And it does seem an appropriate question for us to consider. As pastors we need to inspect our motives and also examine our purposes.

As pastors we need to ask the Lord to show us our heart and reveal to us what our motive is. Are we doing what we are doing for attention? For earthly accolades? For a personal sense of fulfillment? Are we doing the ministry because we don’t think we have any other marketable skills or because if we quit there will be no one else to do it? Why are we in the ministry?

Hopefully, above all, you are in ministry because God called you. Hopefully we serve because we have a passionate love for God and people. I pray that your and my motivation for ministry is a desire to honor and glorify God while also joining Him in bringing people to salvation, healing and wholeness.

But along with examining the motivation of our heart, we should also look deeply at our purpose and intended outcome of ministry. Are we doing it to build a big church? Are we doing it to entertain people? Are we doing ministry to put a smile on people’s faces and make them feel good about themselves?

I hope that our motive is purely for God’s glory and the eternal good of those we minister to and I hope that our end goal is to help people to know God, spend time with God and to become like God.

Even when things aren’t going perfectly or we aren’t reaching new people like we hoped or had the breakthroughs we were praying for and dreaming about, if our motivation and purpose are both holy we know God can surely use us and will be at work, even in our feeble attempts. God does desire fruitfulness, but this I know: when we faithfully stay connected to Him (the vine) then He will source, supply and provide the fruit.

So please, ask the Lord to examine your heart and show you your motive(s) and your purpose(s) and then take the next step in faith, trusting the Lord to sanctify your heart, redeem your mistakes and bless your efforts once your heart is right with Him.

Needing God. Wanting God. Pursuing God.

There is a God-shaped hole in all of us. Nothing can fill that emptiness except God Himself. Anything else that we try to find fulfillment in will leave us lacking, bankrupt, and lifeless. We need God. More than the air we breathe, more than the food we eat and more than the water we drink. We need God more than anything because He is our everything. He is the source of our life, He is our healer, our deliverer and our sustainer.

But not only do we need Him, we must make our journey also one of desire. It is so important that we not only recognize our need for Him, but also that deep within our hearts we yearn for Him. Like hunger and thirst, we need to pine after God because we want Him to know our love, we need to lean into Him because we prefer Him to every other thing.

And finally as we recognize our deep need for Him and we allow that need to blossom into a deep and abiding yearning of desire for Him, we must move even further into an active pursuit of God. Of course we know that He loves us and that He pursues us, because His grace always goes first, but we must reciprocate. We must invest our time, energy and efforts in drawing near to Him. Let us not waste any more of our lives pursuing things that pass away, instead may all we do be about seeing His glory and participating in His mission.

So this week, no matter your vocation, and no matter what tasks you find yourself engaging in, may it be that through it all you would acknowledge your need for God, express your desire for Him and actively run after Him.

Watch over your doctrine closely, part 2

In the first blog post, I gave a basic introduction to doctrine as well as dealing with the fact that how we address false teaching or theological misunderstanding is of utmost importance. We need to be patient, kind, and holy. 

In this post I would like to address how we watch over our doctrine to make sure that it is indeed inline with the Biblical truths, historical creeds and church traditions. In the next blog post I will address how we can “contend for the faith” when other people around us are continually assaulting and trying to undermine the truth which has been given by God.

How can we know whether what we are hearing, believing or passing on to others is in fact right and true? How can we make sure that we are not allowing our doctrinal understanding to drift into heresy?

First of all, all doctrine must find as its starting place, the Word of God. The point of doctrine is that God is revealing the salvation He is offering to humanity as recorded in the pages of the Bible. Scripture must be the foundation. Furthermore we must understand that Scripture is inerrant regarding all things for salvation. Because the Bible contains what we need to know about God’s holiness and truth and about our sin and need for salvation, all doctrine must begin and find explanation and further interpretation in the Bible.

Second, doctrine is not simply what I think the Bible means or what you think the Bible means. Humans (and the devil!) have misinterpreted, misconstrued and misapplied the Bible for millenia. To understand the Bible, we must have the Holy Spirit who gives us understanding, but our understanding, interpretation and application must also come to life through the traditions and creeds of the Judeo-Christian faith which have been handed down to us from the beginning. Our interpretation of Scripture must also be examined in light of the gifts of the collective conscience and experience of the historical church and through the gifts of wisdom and reason. Of course it is not merely my own experience or my own logic, but rather the collective, prayerful, Biblically-based reason and the collective corporate experiences of worship, prayer and listening to God throughout Judeo-Christian history that helps to give explanation to what the Bible is saying. If a so-called doctrine is contrary to the history or tradition of the faith or in opposition to the historical reason and experience of the saints, people and churches of God, you can be reasonably assured that it is a false teaching. 

Finally, there are layers upon layers to the depth of who God is and what He has done and there is mystery surrounding His heavenly wisdom. As Scripture says. God’s ways and thoughts are higher than our ways and thoughts and we need the Holy Spirit to give us spiritual words for spiritual understanding (see Isaiah 55:8-9 and  1 Cor 2:10-14). So if we don’t understand what has been handed down to us by previous generations, let us not arrogantly throw it out and presume they were wrong and we are right. Instead, let us carefully and prayerfully examine what they have given to us, pre-supposing that if it has been established, accepted and promoted throughout Judeo-Christian history, they may indeed understand something more about the depth and breadth of God and His truth, than we personally do yet. I think of Jeremiah 6:16 and the fact that if we would be willing to go to the ancient paths God would show us what is true and confirm the doctrine we have received and give us understanding in it. Let us guard carefully against any teaching that invites us to disregard that which has gone before in favor of new wisdom or ideas that only our current generation could finally understand. 

Please, if you have questions about what is orthodox, true, right teaching and what is false, seek the Lord in prayer, study diligently His Word, but also especially go to the ancient creeds of the church and seek Godly counsel from a pastor (who holds firmly to the authority and primacy of Scripture) to help you discern false teaching and to watch over your own doctrine closely and carefully. 

Watch over doctrine closely

I Timothy 4:16 Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers

What does it mean to watch over our doctrine closely?

What about for pastors who have been entrusted with the spiritual development of God’s people and given the role of watching over the church? What does it mean when we are trying to help other people watch over their lives and doctrine closely? 

I want to share a few ways we are to apply this verse to our lives and our ministries as well as pointing out a few things that this verse does not mean…

First, what it does not mean:

  • This does not mean that we have to defend God’s character and pontificate on perfect orthodoxy at every moment and on every point. God has not called us to police everything and everyone around us to make sure that no one in close proximity to us believes or promotes a false teaching (As God places us in a relationship with people we can and should gently disciple that person, but if we are the doctrine police, we will have little time for anything else, because there is a lot of confusion out there about who God is.)
  • It also does not mean trying to parse every word, reading between all the lines and somehow figuring out what nefarious thing the person really means (Even when people are promoting a specific belief, it does not mean that they are really aware of what they are saying or what the Bible says about the matter. We must be gentle, and give the benefit of the doubt that they are not trying to malign God or His Word, but simply are unaware of the truth.)
  • Finally it does not mean automatically excluding or excommunicating people we disagree with (We know that there is absolutely a truth revealed in the Bible and the gospel and indeed there are people who are part of God’s family/kingdom and others who are not. But it is not our job to speak or teach or dialogue in such a way that our primary goal is to push away anyone who sees something different than we do, but instead that we go together with people to God and His Word and His church so that He can help us to know the truth of a matter. Also there may be things God never clears up this side of eternity, and we have to be okay sojourning with people who think differently on some things.)

So what does it mean to watch over our doctrine closely (and that of those we lead?)

  • It means to read the Word carefully, listen to Godly counsel (including the creeds and historical beliefs of the church), attend church regularly, pray often and let the Lord guide us into understanding who He is and what He is doing
  • It means seeking to understand doctrine, its formation and particularly how it flows forth from Scripture and from God’s revelation and activity in the church and the world
  • It means helping other people to discern God’s voice and learn deeply of His character and activity
  • It means being discipled and discipling others

One big temptation when it comes to matters of doctrine is that we condescend to give our “pearls of wisdom” to people who are less knowledgeable and less mature than us. Another big temptation is to presume that the other person is willingly and knowingly distorting the truth towards their own ends. We must recognize that in doctrinal discussions (like so many other areas of life) the devil seeks to distort, confuse and blind people and we must graciously and patiently seek to help them to come to a knowledge of the truth, even as we ourselves recognize that we do not know or understand perfectly and still need God to help and guide and instruct us. 

This article may already have angered some of you, because it may seem that I am soft on doctrine. I want you to know that there is true and right teaching and there is false teaching, and I believe that there is orthodox teaching and there is heresy. But how we deal with it is of utmost importance. If we believe in a holy God and His call for us to be holy, that means we must be holy even in how we engage with others as we dialogue about doctrine. 

Finally let us be challenged to consider that doctrine can be defined as the words that God gives us to explain the encounters and relationship we have with Him. And that doctrinal explanation of who He is, who we are, what He has done, and what is available to us, helps us to find and use words to express God’s activity in our lives and the world. If we can explain doctrine without having encountered God and entering into a right relationship with Him, we will make ourselves pious Pharisees, and bring judgment upon ourselves, not for our orthodoxy, but for our unkindness and pride. 

May the Lord be merciful to us, helping us to indeed watch over doctrine closely, but may we do it in a God-honoring and holy way!