A Happy Life

keep-calm-and-live-a-simple-happy-lifeWhat is a happy life? So much of our time and energies seemed to be consumed with pursuing happiness and a good life. I guess it might be important to know what it is we are running after so diligently.

I believe that a happy life is more than merely a lack of frustration or angst and certainly more than the presence of fortuitous events and emotional calm. These may indeed be facets of a happy life but I believe Continue reading “A Happy Life”

Spiritual Leadership

God calls us all by His Spirit to relationship, to surrender, to love and to be His vessels of grace and mercy to the world. It is His Spirit at work within us that brings true and eternal life. But we do not receive only to hoard and gather to ourselves. Jesus said: “Freely have you received, freely give”. As such we are called to live in and by His Spirit and we are called to bless and serve others. Together these two things are Spiritual Leadership. We 1) serve, bless, and lead others 2) by His Spirit and for His glory. We each will serve in different contexts (home, church, community, marketplace, etc.) but the calling is the same. 1 Timothy gives us a very thorough explanation of what spiritual leadership is no matter the context:Continue reading “Spiritual Leadership”

Knowing His Love

So what do you know?

This is both a greeting and question. But what do we know, really?

We know what we see, hear, feel and experience. But we also know what we receive by faith. Faith in the speaker. Faith in the person who is telling us what we are now accepting as truth. So what do you know?

I want to tell you that I know God is love. And I know that His love is beautiful, unconditional, faithful, sacrificing and eternal! How do I know this? I am glad you asked.

I know that God is love because I have been told of it. One of the first places where I heard of the love of God was in His Word. And so yes, “Jesus loves me, this I know, because the Bible tells me so”. But I also know the love of God because the Holy Spirit has told me. In various ways and at various times, through highs and lows in life, there has been a constant speaking “I love you; I created you; I died for you; I know you and want you to walk with me”. The words of the Holy Spirit help me know the love of God. I also know God is love because I have been told of it by other people. Even though God speaks through His Word and personal revelation He also speaks through other people and I have heard others tell of His goodness, mercy, grace and love, and their words have helped me to first entertain the thought and then seize it as my own conviction: God is love!

But I don’t only know that God is love because I have been told, but also because I have seen it at work in others. People in my life not only have spoken of the love of God, but have showed it as well. The meekness, gentleness, compassion, patience, grace and mercy that others have showed to me, clearly demonstrated to me that a good God, full of love and mercy is not only real, but fills people with His love and Himself. What a beautiful thing to see the love of God in action in people’s lives!

Lastly, I know that God is love because I have experienced it! I have felt and received His divine love over and over again. Some of the most powerful experiences of His love have occurred at the altar. When I bowed before Him and called out in faith and desperation, He has always met me there! Not always in the same way or with the same message but always in the context of His amazing love! I have experienced His love in times of great need and frustration and loneliness. I have experienced His love through circumstantial blessings. I have known His love through personal transformation of ideas, thoughts, attitudes, priorities, actions and reactions. I have know that His love was real and transformational because of what I experienced within. I have known the love of God through answered prayers and by His promises and eternal blessings that are even now advancing! I have known and experienced the loving presence of God when I praise!

So what do you know? I hope and pray that you know that God is love and that He loves you! I beg you, receive His love afresh and anew today!

Our Identity and Calling

Our Identity and Calling

Our identity is found in Christ. All that He is and all that he offers is who we are called to be. And what God calls us to He provides, equips and empowers for.

And yet we live removed from or below what He offers.

Because of pride.

Because of stubbornness.

Because of selfishness.

Because of pity parties.

Because of guilt.

And shame.

And doubt.

And fear.

But we can be so much more

We can be changed

We can be filled

We can be radiant

Glorious

Transformed

Full of joy

Overflowing

At peace

At rest

In Him

And so yet again I remind you that our identity and calling is to be in and with Christ

We are not defined by what has been

Nor by our likes

Or dislikes

Not our environment

Or the culture around us

Not parents

Not friends

Not enemies

Our circumstances have no say regarding who we are are

The accusations of the enemy have no say

The world has no say

What God says is truth

And it is eternal

And when He says it, it is alive

So what God says about me is reality

And if He says that I am His

And that I will overcome

And that He has chosen me

That I am His beloved

Now

And forever…

That is true!

Believe it

or not…

But if we don’t believe

Then we don’t receive

And somehow, in a great cosmic mystery

We stymie

Thwart

Divert

Alter

God’s plan for us

LET IT NOT BE!

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, the old has gone, the new has come! 2 Cor 5:17

 

Good news: the kingdom of heaven is near!

The gospel

Good news

The kingdom which is near

The kingdom that is here

The kingdom that is within

The price already paid

In full

By Jesus

Unmerited favor

Grace greater than all our sins

Salvation

Freedom

Healing

Forgiveness

Because of His great love

Abundant Life

Eternal Life

That we may love God and love neighbor

The point of it all…

…is that we learn to love each other

…that we learn to get each other’s back

…that we never leave someone behind

…that we learn devotion, integrity, commitment, sacrifice, service, compassion

…that we become Spirit-filled

…that we live holy lives

We must help

Protect the innocent

Preserve life

Defend the oppressed

Take care of the disenfranchised

Serve the down and out

Offer hope to the hopeless

Help to the helpless

“I set you an example that you must do as I have done for you” 

Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friend.

 

 

Leadership is … releasing

Today marks the last in my series on defining characteristics of leadership.  I hope that you have enjoyed them and that you have found them beneficial.

The last facet of leadership that I will be discussing is perhaps the hardest and yet the most important.

As leaders we must release the work, the results, the process, the progress and even the direction of the organization into the hands of our team. If we don’t release it to them, they will never have the necessary intrinsic motivators necessary to be fully engaged and successful.

Our releasing actually must begin at the very first discussion about goals and organizational direction. As the leader we may have certain key components that we feel are non-negotiable but we need to keep them few and simple. Leaders must release the work to the team (and they in turn must release the work to those they lead) if we ever want to learn about team-work, collaboration, unity and synergy.

Releasing - 2Releasing the work is a humbling process and requires that we as leaders have a trust in the character and ability of our team. Releasing the work is giving people permission to try and permission to fail. Releasing the work is opening wide the possibilities of what might be both for the individual team member but also for the entire organization. If we cannot release the work we will burnout, personally stifle the health and growth of our organization, drastically reduce the trust our team members have for us and perhaps ultimately relegate us to managers of the status quo.

Leadership is … involving

Leadership is involving is the third in this short series.  In case you have missed the first two, here are links to those articles.  The first one was Leadership is . . .  Modeling.  And the second one was Leadership is . . .  Teaching.  But today I want to focus on involving others through our leadership.

After we have modeled our convictions, purpose and plan and then shared with others where we are headed and how they can be a vital part of that process, then we must begin involving people.

It is not enough to plan and structure things. It is not enough to have goals and action steps, we must involve and engage people in the actual implementation. Involving begins during the previous stage of teaching/learning because it simply won’t work to tell others what the vision and plan is and how they fit in it without giving them opportunity to contribute to the formation of the vision and plan.

Involved - 2Even if you have the leverage of certain extrinsic motivators, you and your organization will simply not achieve great results if you merely give people a list of expectations. As leaders we need to involve people in every part of the process from the brainstorming session to the recruitment of the team to the development of the process and to the analysis of the “success” of the plan. We must involve people not only by letting them have a seat at the table but seeking and welcoming their ideas and insights all along the way. Involvement should create ownership and produce far greater results than any one person can achieve alone.

Leadership is … teaching

Leadership is teaching.

We must tell others what we are attempting, why we are doing it, how we plan on getting there and how to avoid pitfalls along the way. As leaders we can never assume that the people we are leading know what we are thinking or reaching for.

As we live out our personal mission we must constantly be attentive to leading others through teaching. We must explain why we do what we do, and we must invite others to join us. We cannot be timid in our recruiting or our teaching. Our words must be clear and purposeful.

Teaching - 2Our teaching must be about more than just vision, but also about the process. But let me be clear here: the teaching of leadership doesn’t only go one way. In many ways this facet of leadership could be titled “learning” because not only will our team be learning but we will be as well. Sometimes we are the teacher, sometimes one of our team is doing the teaching and of course many times it is the circumstances and failures along the way that teach us the most.

As leaders we must teach and we must learn, because if we do not then we ourselves, not to mention our team and our organization, will stagnate and become irrelevant and useless.

Leadership is … modeling

Leadership is leading, but perhaps first it is living.

We must live what we know is right and pursue the goals and steps we know are important to live out our purpose. In other words as leaders we must let our lives model our convictions. As those who have been given charge of a group of people we must model what we are advocating and live out loud the lifestyle and practices that we are hoping they will one day emulate. In order to have credibility we must be authentic and live what we teach. Not only this but because people learn in so many different ways a multi-sensory approach to training and equipping is a must.

Furthermore, faithfully living out what we desire for those we are responsible for will help them to realize that what we are asking of them is much more than just a routine but we believe in it enough that we devote our lives to taking our ideas, philosophies, convictions, goals and dreams and putting “skin” on them.

Be so committed to your purpose and convictions that your life is a picture of what you desire your followers to be.

Trust

Trust in the Lord.

With all your heart.

Do not lean on your own understanding.

In all your ways.

Acknowledge Him.

He will make your paths straight.

Proverbs 3:5-6

 

We know these words. But what does this look like day in and day out? Is it really possible? What is the outcome?

People place their trust in many things. Money. Security. Strength. Wisdom. Success. Themselves. The problem with placing our trust in money, is that it is here today and gone tomorrow. The problem with trusting security is that we are really trusting temporal things to protect us. Whose strength are we relying on? Our own? Whose wisdom? Whose measure of success? When we trust in any of these things we end up really offering our allegiance (and prayers?!) to things which cannot answer our deepest needs and most heartfelt cries.

But if we trust the Lord. He is eternal. He is all-knowing. He is sinless. He is perfect. He is good. He is love. And He does all things without ever failing. After all the Bible tells us Love never fails.

So what does it look like to trust the Lord with all your heart? It means letting Him handle your emotions, intellect and will regarding all things. He already has the future and every circumstance in His hands. What He wants though is your heart, your love, your trust, your obedience.

And when you put it all in His hands. He will give you peace. And therefore, moment by moment as your surrender your personal, fallible, human, and temporal emotive, intellectual and will-full ideas, attitudes, actions and reactions into His hands, the only thing that is left in you is…the eternal. God places in us the eternal: His eternal Spirit, the never fading, never passing away fruits of His Spirit, and His never-ending joy and peace.

Oh yeah, and when you trust Him completely and receive all that He offers you, what you will see in front of you is one illuminated step, which will be along the path of righteousness. He will make your paths straight and will remind you “this is the way, walk in it” when you trust Him. And what glory He will receive and you will see when you trust this way. It is possible. Trust. God.

Lord, help me trust and rest in You, now and forevermore, AMEN!