Insurmountable Circumstances, Part 1

am in the Rocky Mountains this week. As I gaze up at the beautiful snow-capped mountains I am also struck by the fact that the peaks are rugged, sheer, and without the appropriate means: insurmountable.

So what do you do when you come up against something that is insurmountable? As a leader what approach do you take when a goal seems impossible to achieve or an obstacle seems impossible to overcome?

I would like to offer a few practical insights to guide you when (not if!) you come up against a sheer and seemingly impassable “mountain”. I will deal with this in two blog posts and will address two things to help you ascend and conquer those mountains. The two primary things that will help you overcome will be 1. Preparing yourself and 2. Gathering the right team and the proper equipment

So for this post let’s talk about the reality that to overcome insurmountable circumstances you must prepare yourself. 

Prepare Yourself

If we feel like we are facing insurmountable circumstances a few bullet points in a blog post certainly won’t be sufficient for us to all of a sudden feel like we have a grasp on something and can tackle it head on, right?! So what do you do when the obstacles seem too many, the ascent too steep, the cost too great?

In these situations I believe the answer lies not by initially addressing the “mountain” in front of you, but rather looking inward to the obstacles within. Sometimes it is our doubts and fears that are the greatest obstacles to be overcome. In our minds we find ourselves in a place where we believe that failure or at least “half-way” is all we can accomplish and as a result we begin giving up sometimes before we even get started.

So how do we change our thoughts, our perspective and even those nagging “feelings” that seem to derail us so quickly?

First, I would say that mountains seem insurmountable when we get overwhelmed by their sheer magnitude. So many times we must break down the expedition into smaller more manageable goals or action steps. You may not really believe you can make it to the top, but the question is: “can I make it to the tree across the clearing”? Breaking things into smaller more manageable steps helps us to develop inner perseverance and our character.

Second, things seem insurmountable when we think about past failures. When we replay in our minds other things that have gone wrong then we start telling ourselves that this too will be futile in light of all the other times we (and others) have failed. To overcome this we must realize that the past is truly gone and what is right in front of us now is where we must live. Ignore the nagging voice of doubt emanating from the past and instead grab hold of the possibility that “this might be the day that…”

Third, mountains seem impossible to overcome when we think about our own personal insufficiencies. The truth is that in and of ourselves we simply are not up to the task. This takes humility and an acceptance of the facts, but should not result in despair or despondency. Instead when we realize that we cannot do it alone it helps us to realize what we are gifted in and what we need others to help us with. When we all work within our strengths it improves our self-confidence and helps us succeed.

I hope these few steps will help you work on your inner thoughts, feelings and character and better prepare for you the next mountain you are going to climb. Tune in next time for the second part of this topic: recruiting the right personnel and gathering the right equipment.

What are your thoughts on insurmountable circumstances?

*Cross-posted at http://www.LeadershipVoices.com

 

What to do when you don’t know what to do

What should we do when we don’t know what to do? You know the times I am talking about. Things seem to be coming at you a bit too hard and a bit too fast. Yesterday you thought you had it handled but today things are a bit too much. What do you do when it seems like things aren’t headed in a good direction and something needs to change quick before the situation either explodes or implodes and leaves nothing but pieces in its aftermath?

Many times we find ourselves doing a number of similar things each time things get a bit out of control:

  • Decompress
  • Self-medicate (through drugs, caffeine, nicotine, food, etc)
  • Rest and relaxation
  • Escape
  • Comfort aids (food, drink, music, other)

But are these the right things to do? What happens when we take this approach? The reality is that each of these things have a degree of helpfulness in taking the edge off in the midst of difficult times, but in and of themselves, these fixes are truly only temporary and often only compound the problem.

Within each of us is a struggle and it is that inner struggle that causes the chaos. It is not the outer circumstances but the inner thoughts, attitudes and reactions that need to be aligned and centered. These things can only happen in prayer and in the presence of God. Peace is not an absence of conflict, nor is it a state of mind. Peace is a fruit of the Spirit and where the Spirit is there is peace. If we want to have that peace in our lives, we must dwell in Him and He in us. Things that overwhelm us are not a problem if we rest in the hands of One who is bigger than the biggest problem.

I know God uses many things to help us come to a place of comfort, rest, healing, joy and peace but most important is abiding. If God asks you to “decompress” by telling Him how you are feeling, tell Him. And tell Him all of it. He is big enough, He can handle it. If God invites you away to a prayer closet in your house or on the beach to be alone with Him, then do it. Please don’t resort to self-diagnosing, self-medicating, running away (escape) or drowning your sorrows. Take it to the Lord in prayer. Leave your burdens there, and learn to live in His constantly abiding presence. I know in His presence you will find His perfect peace.

*Cross-posted at http://www.LeadershipVoices.com

Leadership as helping

Everyone needs some help with something. Some people need money; others need wisdom; still others just need a chance. You know what I mean, because right now if you were to take the time and consider the question you could probably produce a list of things you could use some help with.

I also remind you that the help you so often need resides in some person you already know. Putting it another way: you have some gift, some talent, some ability, some provision that can help someone else. That’s the beautiful thing about this world and the way it was created is that within our collective grasp are the tools to help one another in many meaningful ways.

The hard part is Continue reading “Leadership as helping”

Teamwork Principles from Sports

Teams are all the rage today in business. Surely some of this comes from our love for sports and the beauty of seeing a group of people on the field or court, working together in unity and skillfully executing a play. But furthermore we love to talk about teams today because of the camaraderie represented, the importance of each team member knowing and executing their job and the synergy that occurs through mutual trust and proficient performance. But loving the concept of “team” and actually building a team and helping it realize its potential are completely different things. I would like to propose 4 sports-themed warnings to help you build a better team.

Going 5-wide just isn’t possible; Going 4 wide isn’t sustainable Continue reading “Teamwork Principles from Sports”

New Beginnings

Everyone loves to have a new beginning.

To be sure, we all need new beginnings.

Some come everyday. Some come during certain seasons in life.

A new beginning is the end of what has come before and starting on the path to what is next.

Spring is a season of new beginnings. After the winter when everything has either died or gone dormant, Spring is the time when things are “reborn”, “revitalized” or “reawakened”. Continue reading “New Beginnings”

Motivation and the Greater Good

want to take a moment to examine the heart, character, inner thoughts and motives of one who desires to lead. This is a helpful practice that we each ought to engage in on a regular basis. Without self-examination, accountability and attention to moral development even the best of leaders will slowly drift and become overtaken by the allure of power, pleasure, greed and self-satisfying behaviors.

At the heart of every leadership attitude and behavior should be the inherent desire to help our fellow humans. Leadership is not some kind of encapsulated behavior that gets things done without human interaction or personal influence. Instead leadership is with and for people. Continue reading “Motivation and the Greater Good”

20 Fundamental Questions for Team Building

In my last post I shared 5 sports-themed principles of team building. In this post I would like to give you a practical tool to help you build a team, unify them, point them in one direction and then let them execute the plan.

One of the best leadership practices is question-asking. Accordingly I would like to give you 20 questions that you first answer yourself and then work through with your team. As you think through these questions and collaborate with your team on possible answers and implications I believe you begin will see the true potential of team-effort. There can be a beautiful synergy between team members co-laboring on mission, vision and goals but as the leader you have to ask the right questions.Continue reading “20 Fundamental Questions for Team Building”

Treasure hunting

I love to hunt for treasure. In books, at yard sales, even metal detecting. It is fun and adventurous! There is something in me that simply loves to go out and try and discover the hidden, the lost and the forgotten. I also love to find things of great value! It brings me great satisfaction to find something of great worth.

One thing I have noticed though is that I may occasionally stumble upon a treasure while in everyday living, but most of the time I have to intentionally seek after it. It takes time and effort and planning to go metal detecting or to look for the best deals at a store. Continue reading “Treasure hunting”

Making or Tending

“What do you have that you did not receive?” 1 Corinthians 4:7

Perhaps one of the most difficult things in this life is “making” something of our lives.

You and I both desire to make our lives count for something.

We want our lives to have purpose and meaning and so we set out to:

  • Make a name for ourselves
  • Prove our worth
  • Create something both impactful and lasting

And yet, I wonder if we are really on the wrong track here. Continue reading “Making or Tending”

Leading an underachieving team

Underachiever's Manifesto

There are times in our various leadership roles that we will have times of great productivity, effectiveness and performance. These times are wonderful and full of promise and excitement. But there are other times when it seems like instead of the Midas touch turning everything to gold, our leadership or our team keeps missing the mark. So what do you do when the group, team or organization that you are leading is unproductive, ineffective and non­-performing? In this post I would like to propose ten basic principles / leadership behaviors that will help you in these dry / difficult times and help you and your team discover your full potential.Continue reading “Leading an underachieving team”