When they don’t show up

Dear Pastor, What do you do when your friends, parishioners you love and respect, people who support you in every other way, don’t show up to Bible studies, worship services and ministry events that you have planned? I’m not talking about people who are on the fence, running from God or openly antagonistic towards you,Continue reading “When they don’t show up”

When they don’t approve

Dear Pastor, Here is the difficult news: you will always have someone who thinks you should be doing something different than you are.  Don’t worry about that. You don’t live or minister to make them happy. You aren’t seeking their approval. You won’t stand before them on judgment day. There is something that is commonContinue reading “When they don’t approve”

Pursue peace with all men, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord

If there was only one message that I could give to people, it would be this.  There is a misnomer that God only comes to bless your life and give you gifts, abundance and fulfillment. In one sense people far and wide have come to adopt a “health, wealth and prosperity” gospel without realizing it. Continue reading “Pursue peace with all men, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord”

Seeking acceptance, handling disapproval, and overcoming a prejudicial culture

So many of us simply want love, acceptance and approval from the people around us. The problem is that people may not offer acceptance without certain conditions and their approval of our choices and beliefs may not actually help us to become better versions of ourselves.  In this article I want to talk about howContinue reading “Seeking acceptance, handling disapproval, and overcoming a prejudicial culture”

Seeking to be a God-honoring, faithful and effective pastor

I want to be like certain people I have met or watched over the years. I want to be like Fred Rogers. I want to be like the fictional character Father Brown. I want to be like my Uncle Warren. What each of these men have in common is a gentleness and compassion and whatContinue reading “Seeking to be a God-honoring, faithful and effective pastor”

Conduits of the living water

Dear Pastor, I want you to think of yourself as a conduit, a carrier of the Lord to people. Think about an aqueduct or viaduct…it’s sole purpose is to get the water to people. Yes the Romans created some impressive and beautiful aqueducts that 1000s of years later still draw attention to their genius andContinue reading “Conduits of the living water”